Submit Your Narcissistic Abuse Story
Real Survivor Stories of Narcissistic Abuse, Coercive Control, and Psychological Manipulation
If you are searching for answers about emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse patterns,
trauma bonding, or psychological manipulation...
...you are not alone
...you are not crazy
..you are not broken
Memoirs of the Narcissized is a survivor-led anthology project documenting real stories of narcissistic abuse.
Through structured memoirs that follow the recognizable abuse cycle —
Love Bombing → Devaluation → Discard → Hoover → Repeat —
this site helps survivors recognize coersive control, reclaim clarity, and begin recovery.
Narcissistic abuse is not a “bad relationship.”
It is a patterned cycle of abuse as consistent from victim to victim as a script.
Reading multiple structured survivor accounts of narcissistic abuse allows readers to see their own experiences reflected without being persuaded or argued into it.
This site exists to:
Help survivors recognize emotional abuse patterns
Break trauma bonds through clarity
Document the social impact of narcissistic abuse
Support awareness for mental health providers, educators, legislators, police and the public
Provide you with catharsis and closure through the telling your story
Have you been narcissized?
If you have survived love bombing, devaluation, discard, hoovering or trauma bonding, your story may help someone else recognize what they are living through.
We welcome structured memoir submissions following the eight-part survivor format.
You may remain anonymous.
You may change identifying details.
Your experience matters.